Dating experts say that cougar dating would be the perfect solution for men who want to date casually and aren’t really looking for someone to marry. However, although most people who jump onto this particular dating trend do it without looking for a serious relationship, it wouldn’t hurt to learn more about how it works first to make sure that you make the most out of your experiences with it, right?
After all, if you know exactly how cougar dating works, then you could end up having an incredible time in the dating field. Here is the lowdown on what to expect when dating a cougar in today’s day and age.
Should You Look into Cougar Dating?
Aside from enjoying a casual relationship, cougar dating also involves a lot of sex. If you have no idea how this particular dating setup works; well, it basically involves a relationship, wherein a couple share intimate sexual moments without any serious commitments to one another. In other words, you can basically have random or scheduled dates whenever you want to with sex on the side.
Of course, not everybody will enjoy this kind of setup. In fact, it might only suit people who love to flirt and are generally outgoing and like to have fun while dating. Also, before entering into a relationship that involves casual sex, you need to be prepared to consent to this kind of intimacy and yet be assertive enough to set your personal boundaries with your potential partner beforehand. Remember: this kind of relationship doesn’t really have any limitations aside from the ones that you set for it.
Before joining the cougar sex dating scene, you also need to know what you want out of a relationship, in general. Once you know this, you will have an easier time deciding what to run after and what to avoid altogether.
Cougar Dating – The Potential Pitfalls
Although cougar dating comes with a lot of traits that both women and men are sure to enjoy, it would be highly advisable to be wary about where you step. After all, it can be easy for you to forget to think logically, for example, most of all if you get too caught up in the moment.
One of the most important things for you to watch out for in this department would be your safety, most of all if you decide to date somebody that you meet online. While it may be easy to believe everything that an attractive person tells you online, you need to remember that fake identities run rampant on the World Wide Web nowadays, as well.
Another thing to worry about in the world of cougar dating would be your health. It goes without saying that it is important to practice safe sex at all times, especially when you partake in casual sex with people you hardly even know.
Overall, cougar dating is a great option for people who love excitement. However, it would be vital to know the pitfalls that come with it, as well – remember that. If you are looking to find cougar women, check out a site called CougarDating.tv – it has loads of hot women from lots of different countries, including the UK of course! Read More
If you are a woman between 40 and 60 years old and want to have hot sex with a young hunk without any commitments whatsoever or any strings attached, for that matter, then you need to look into cougar dating today. However, if you want to find a solid relationship that may eventually result in marriage, then you need to steer clear of cougar dating altogether. So, think ahead and try to see what the future has in store for you before making your final decision in the matter.
Think about these questions, too: do you like being seen as the prize in the relationship? Do you like feeling unique? Do you like knowing that you can offer men things that other women cannot offer them, such as your wit, your humor, your intellect, your unique thoughts about life, your emotional support, your love and your ultimate bond and chemistry?
Would you be wiling to stop being the prize for a short-term fling?
For something completely unsubstantial?
For something that may or may not give you a short confidence boost?
Well, that is all that cougar dating can really offer you – that, and emotional toll. Admit it: as a woman, you are a very emotional creature, no matter how strong you think you might be. This is simply how God made you. Women generally have difficulties separating sexual relationships from love, most of all when the sack sessions are good and the emotions evolve quicker than expected.
This isn’t how cougar dating is meant to work, though. Young hunks end up milking older women for everything that they can get out of it, and they can easily separate sex and love by nature.
Unfortunately, this isn’t how things work with women. So, when the woman’s emotional attachment starts to click in, she might end up getting possessive and wondering why he doesn’t call more or visit her more. She might start getting angry when she catches him looking at younger women, as well.
This might make her scared of losing him, so she might start buying him gifts and paying for his bills. She might start lending him money for various business opportunities and might eventually start getting too attached to him.
Sometimes, this might lead to long-term relationships. However, you really shouldn’t count on that!
Here are several things to think about:
If you already have children and get involved with someone in his 20s, you need to remember that he is just starting while you are already done with certain phases.
– Could you have more kids with this man?
– Can you live with the fact that you will get gray hair and wrinkles earlier than him?
Aside from that, are you prepared to live with somebody who doesn’t share any interests with you in terms of movies, music, technology or art? Remember: he is from a completely different generation altogether.
If you imagine yourself getting married to someone that you can have a romantic, healthy and lasting marriage with, then you need to steer clear of cougar dating like the plague. Instead, try looking for a man who has direction and is ready for that phase in his life.
To get the man of your dreams, practice certain win-win principles that are based on the male psychology when they are challenged to go after a woman. Become the bait that he will want to catch and then pair up this challenge with principles of Agape love. This will give you a great combination in your hands that will increase your chances of winning over a loving husband. Wouldn’t that be so much greater than joining the cougar dating trend? Read More
By now everyone knows what the term cougar mean when applied to dating. A cougar is a woman somewhere between the age of 30 to 50 who prefers to date a guy around the age of 25. Her reasons may be known only to her, but one thing anyone knows is that she certainly doesn’t lack for younger, male companionship.
There are many who think that sex is all a cougar wants from her young “cub.” Who knows what she is thinking? One thing that is for certain is that sex with her is definitely not going to be boring or hum-drum. She is old enough to know exactly what she wants from her younger companion, and is not afraid to let her sexual fantasies be known to him.
Even though older women love to have their young lover in bed, she is by no means desperate! At the stage of the game she is at, she can pretty much pick and choose who she wants to be with. So if you are thinking that she has limited choices in who she brings to her bed, think again!! It’s the younger men who are falling over themselves to get there.
Cubs want to be with her sexually because they know she has the experience they might not have. They can learn a lot from her at any given time. She is also not inhibited about her needs and desires. A refreshing change from some of the young, inexperienced girls who expect an “I love you” after a sexual encounter.
A cougar expects no such thing, and unless the relationship develops into something serious, it’s the young guy who is liable to get carried away verbally. She just wants to relax and enjoy the moment. She is not some oversexed individual trying to regain her lost youth. She is secure in who she is and lives life to the fullest, so if you younger guys think she might be “easy”…think again! You’re in for a rude awakening.
All the hype surrounding the cougars-cub relationships has proved groundless because some of these couples have actually been together for a number of years. There are several rather famous couples who can attest to this fact! Obviously there is more than sex keeping them together-there must be many things they have in common for the relationship to endure for so long.
When you put it all into perspective, sex between to consenting adults is fine, even if the male is younger by some years. That is not what all older women/younger men relationships are however. Public opinion does seem to have shifted in recent years, though. It is no longer taboo for these couples to appear in public, but the people who do frown upon it are probably the ones who started the rumor about the “all about the sex” thing in the first place. Older women don’t crave sex like some addict, but it can be nice no matter what the age. Read More
If you’re on the hunt for a super hot older woman to show you a few new tricks in the bedroom and blow your mind, let me first tell you this – if you’re not man enough for the task, you won’t last five minutes.
You need to be able to keep up with these older women if you want to keep them on side – older women, just like myself, are not easily pleased, and the half-assed performance you put in with the 20-something girls of your own generation, won’t be enough to keep me, and women like me, satisfied.
Granny’s – they aren’t easy targets.
That’s the first thing you should get out of your head. You can’t just run up to a fitter, older woman and tell her you’re taking her to bed because life doesn’t work like that. She has her pick of the bunch, especially on those granny dating sites, especially if she keeps herself looking good, as I do. I’m joined up to a couple of those websites and let me tell you this – the competition is fierce and plentiful. I’m never short of younger, male admirers.
They want to feel young again!
They’ve just spent a number of years in a marriage that may have come to an end for one reason for another. They’ve been a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and now they want to be something else – they want to be themselves. They want to be able to explore and have fun in the bedroom, and make up for all those years they wasted with boring, military-position sex that only happened once a week and on special occasions. That’s where you come in – you are there to make them feel young again. So do it – don’t try to be their older, boring husbands, be yourself! Be young, be energetic, and above all else, be fun.
They won’t mother you…
Right, they really won’t. They’ve had their kids, they don’t want their younger lover to become their next big kid. They won’t do your laundry, and they won’t cook your dinner. They want you to pleasure them in bed, so you can’t expect to keep the passion alive by leaving your dirty pants at hers for her to wash and iron. Be a man. We want a younger lover, not another child!
They won’t be clingy, that’s for sure!
If you want a girlfriend that you can check up on, to know where she is all the time, and the same be said for her and your whereabouts, you’re barking up the wrong tree here. The Granny won’t be checked up on. In fact, she’ll hate that. She has her own life, and you fit in where you fit in. It’s as simple as that. If you want to be clingy, find yourself a younger guy. It’s as simple as that.
She’s not just looking for a one night stand.
If you play your cards right, and show her all the right moves, you could have yourself a very regular booty call. She’s not looking for sex with random multiple partners all the time. It’s nice to know you have one guy that you can trust, to have fun with whenever you have the time to. It’s exhausting having to chat someone up online and get to know them for a couple of days just to get a great night out of it. Keep her happy and you’ve got the perfect long-term sex-based relationship on your hands. What more could the average younger guy want?
So before you start your Granny dating quest, before you try to seduce that hot, older GILF into your bedroom, make sure you know what you’re doing. She’ll have no problems in ditching you if you’re not the full package, and there’s plenty more where you came from! 😉 Read More
Right guys, I’m not saying you’re inexperienced. I’m not saying that you’re going to be crap in bed. I’m not even saying that you NEED a helping hand when it comes to understanding the mature woman’s body, but let’s be honest, extra knowledge never did anyone any harm, did it? Especially when it means you could be a better lover.
Older women need taking care of a slightly different way to the younger girls you’re probably well used to sleeping with. Or not sleeping with. The heavy-handed, rough and tumble approach isn’t going to bode well for you with a Granny. She is a woman with years and wisdom behind her, so there’s a good chance she’s going to know more than a few tricks herself. That’s certainly the case with me, so I decided to do you all a favour and let you in on the dirty little secrets.
I hope you’re sitting down…
1 – Don’t underestimate the power of foreplay.
So many men cut this out, especially younger guys that haven’t got years of experience behind them. Foreplay is your best friend when it comes to seducing a hot, older Granny, and if you’re not willing to put in the leg work, you’re not gong to get a call back.
Google it, if you don’t know what to do. This is stuff that will help you with ALL ladies, not just the more mature ones.
2 – Don’t leave her nipples out.
Sorry, was that too to-the-point for you? Guys seem to have this weird obsession with breasts, but when they’re ready, naked and waiting in front of them, they don’t really know what to do. Pay attention to her breasts when you’re seducing her, and she’ll be putty in your hands. Didn’t you know there is an actual connection between the arousal part of the brain, and direct stimulation of her nipples…?
3 – Be open about your fantasies…
She’s probably going to be open about hers to you. Isn’t that what you want, anyway? She’s inviting you into her bed because she wants YOU! She wants to try the fruits of your labour, and she wants to try new things full stop. If you aren’t open about what you want to try in bed, you’re wasting a blinding opportunity. Chances are, she’s already thought about doing it too!
4 – Don’t be afraid to go with the moment!
If you really want to ravish her the second you both walk through the front door, do it! Do you know how much your Granny wants that more than anything? After years of scheduled sex with a tired husband who worked too many hours, and had a heart condition, she wants spontaneous, RIGHT NOW sex!
So for the love of God, just give it to her!
5 – Don’t be afraid to explore her body.
If you want to blindfold her, tie her to her headboard, and go crazy, finding all those little spots that make her toes curl, and a little gasp escape her throat, do it! She doesn’t have half as many body hang-up’s as girls your own age. This GILF has learned to live with her flaws, and all those little bits abut her body she didn’t like. It’s wildly refreshing to go crazy with someone that doesn’t feel the need to turn the lights off and cover up with a duvet first, so make the most of it!
Above all else, have fun with your sex. That’s what your Granny wants – someone to have fun with, and to refresh a tired and bland sex life with. Trust me – as a ‘GILF’ myself, that’s all I want!
PS…By the way guys, these tips in this post were written by a hot GILF I shagged from a really cool GILF dating site called Granny Dating Club. Check it out! You’ll love it! Read More