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Dating Older Women

Posted by on Apr 11, 2016

Dating Older Women

A while ago, me and few blokes were having a beer in the local pub. Those blokes were my best friends from high school. Although this sounds like a plot from the film The World’s end, it’s not like that. We are still good friends. Anyway, we were sitting talking about how Leicester could win The Premier League, how our teams that we support disappointed us. Most of us said that Rooney could only make the bench and how Kane and Vardy must start for England. Stubborn Don had to say that we needed Rooney’s experience, but after few minutes, he changed his mind. Later that evening, we started talking about women. Well, most of us started, because Stubborn Don is married and he had to go home early. After the sixth pint, Jamie, also known as a quiet one, had to share with us something. He said: ”Guys, we know each other for decades, and I would like you to listen to me.” We stopped talking and put our ears up front. He said: ”Guys I am with the older woman.”

None of us were shocked at first – we were asking questions that were rude and that kind of questions I will not post online, but one of the questions were how old was she. He finally said that she was thirty years older than him. Then we were shocked. I tried to listen to Jamie because we always had a good relationship between us, but other were very vocal about this topic. They said they could never fool around with some old lady.

Jamie then tried to tell us that he wasn’t fooling around and that he was dating her. I know I said to myself; hm, granny dating. He also said that she wasn’t the first one and that he had another relationship with an older woman before. Then others said that he was trying to rebound after he left Nancy (his ex-girlfriend) by granny dating. When they used this term, then I realized why we spent so much time together, we started to think alike. So we asked him to tell us why he started dating older women.

Then he told us about problems with Nancy and other younger women. Well, younger than these particular older women. He said that with Nancy and other women of her age, he needed to be more patient. He had some conversations that he didn’t enjoy and going out with her could be more exhausting that he thought it would be. With older women he could do whatever he wanted. They are dating only for fun. They are divorced and sometimes only want a quiet dinner, in which Jamie enjoys a lot. I don’t know if Jamie will fall in love with some of these women but he is having fun with them and that makes him happy, as a matter of a fact, he makes happy these women as well.

We finally went home, and we all started thinking; are we missing something? We are all sure that Harry Kane must start for England at Euros, but we weren’t sure that we could also try dating older women – still everyone choose their path.

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Dating And Relationships – Not Every Older Woman Is A Granny

Posted by on Mar 27, 2016

Without a doubt, women have come a very long way when it comes to getting rid of the double standards of decades past. Although this doesn’t necessarily mean that society is completely accepting of equality nowadays, things are definitely changing. Just take a look at the relationships that tend to occur between older women and younger men nowadays.

When older men date younger women, people’s perspectives are a bit different. After all, this scenario has been around for a very long time. In fact, the older man might even get praises for having won over such a young woman.

This isn’t the case when the woman is older, though. In fact, a lot of people consider it shameful and indecent for older women to date somebody younger than them. It doesn’t even matter if both parties consist of consenting adults who enjoy each other’s company and find one another attractive.

Right now, there is a term for when older women date younger men: Granny dating. Granny dating basically refers to an intimate and fun relationship that doesn’t involve serious commitments – something that is alright for a lot of adults nowadays. However, the term ‘Granny’ in itself essentially refers to a woman who is ready to jump onto any unsuspecting prey in their midst before moving on to another. In other words, it makes the older woman look like a real predator in the dating scene.

Well, it is true that some older women are interested in nothing but one-night-stands, but this is how a lot of older men think, as well. Why is it that nobody has come up with a term for them, like ‘slapper dating’?

It doesn’t really matter who came up with the term, though. The point is that society seems to look at these relationships in a completely different way compared to the way they look at other relationships.

What they don’t seem to realize is that people all have different desires and motivations in terms of relationships, regardless of how old they might be.

For most Granny relationships, it is all about two people and nothing else. As with any other dating relationship out there, it involves attraction, compatibility, and the person’s willingness to build onto the relationship. Singling out the age of a woman an putting a label on her just shows how narrow-minded society still is despite being in such a technologically advanced world as today.

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