A cougar is described as a woman in her late 30’s to late 40’s who prefer the company of a younger man-usually someone in their late 20’s. A granny is defined as a woman in her 60’s who likes young men who are 20 to 30 years her junior. Believe it or not some young men really like the older women and would prefer to date someone like this instead of a woman closer to their own age.
Why is this so? Many young men find that a female his own age is superficial, immature, and is only looking for marriage or someone who is well off. Cougars and grannies are well past that stage in their lives, and are more often than not quite well off themselves. Many of them are divorced and do not want to get married again. Others are widowed and find that they don’t want to replace their loved one, and still many have never been married and prefer it that way!
One of the main differences between cougar dating and granny dating is that a cougar will still want to party and kick up her heels. She wants to hit the clubs, get in some drinking, listen to newer music and dance the night away. She wants a young guy who can keep up with her, not the other way around. She is still young enough to enjoy this lifestyle and is not ready to give it up yet.
Dating a granny might be a bit more sedate. She may prefer dining in high-end restaurants and listening to an entirely different type of music. She may want you to squire her to places like the opera, or benefits and the like. Dinner with friends her age might also be on the agenda. If you find this appealing, and you don’t see it as boring, you might very well enjoy dating a granny. Of course there must be some sort of attraction between the two of you also.
A cougar may still be in the workforce and she may be busy with her career and can only see you on occasion, or when it suits her schedule and mood. She may also spend a lot of time with her friends and won’t always have time for you. This is not the relationship for you if you are the jealous type or want her to focus all her attention on you.
A granny will undoubtedly want you to be at her beck and call. She has all the time in the world, and she will want to spend that time with you. She probably no longer works and has time and money to spend and will want to focus on you. If you don’t mind a quieter lifestyle and being with her a lot, granny dating might be for you. Make sure you know what is what before you get too deep into any relationship that involves an older woman! It can be a lot of fun if you know what is expected of you right from the start!
