If you’re on the hunt for a super hot older woman to show you a few new tricks in the bedroom and blow your mind, let me first tell you this – if you’re not man enough for the task, you won’t last five minutes.
You need to be able to keep up with these older women if you want to keep them on side – older women, just like myself, are not easily pleased, and the half-assed performance you put in with the 20-something girls of your own generation, won’t be enough to keep me, and women like me, satisfied.
Granny’s – they aren’t easy targets.
That’s the first thing you should get out of your head. You can’t just run up to a fitter, older woman and tell her you’re taking her to bed because life doesn’t work like that. She has her pick of the bunch, especially on those granny dating sites, especially if she keeps herself looking good, as I do. I’m joined up to a couple of those websites and let me tell you this – the competition is fierce and plentiful. I’m never short of younger, male admirers.
They want to feel young again!
They’ve just spent a number of years in a marriage that may have come to an end for one reason for another. They’ve been a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and now they want to be something else – they want to be themselves. They want to be able to explore and have fun in the bedroom, and make up for all those years they wasted with boring, military-position sex that only happened once a week and on special occasions. That’s where you come in – you are there to make them feel young again. So do it – don’t try to be their older, boring husbands, be yourself! Be young, be energetic, and above all else, be fun.
They won’t mother you…
Right, they really won’t. They’ve had their kids, they don’t want their younger lover to become their next big kid. They won’t do your laundry, and they won’t cook your dinner. They want you to pleasure them in bed, so you can’t expect to keep the passion alive by leaving your dirty pants at hers for her to wash and iron. Be a man. We want a younger lover, not another child!
They won’t be clingy, that’s for sure!
If you want a girlfriend that you can check up on, to know where she is all the time, and the same be said for her and your whereabouts, you’re barking up the wrong tree here. The Granny won’t be checked up on. In fact, she’ll hate that. She has her own life, and you fit in where you fit in. It’s as simple as that. If you want to be clingy, find yourself a younger guy. It’s as simple as that.
She’s not just looking for a one night stand.
If you play your cards right, and show her all the right moves, you could have yourself a very regular booty call. She’s not looking for sex with random multiple partners all the time. It’s nice to know you have one guy that you can trust, to have fun with whenever you have the time to. It’s exhausting having to chat someone up online and get to know them for a couple of days just to get a great night out of it. Keep her happy and you’ve got the perfect long-term sex-based relationship on your hands. What more could the average younger guy want?
So before you start your Granny dating quest, before you try to seduce that hot, older GILF into your bedroom, make sure you know what you’re doing. She’ll have no problems in ditching you if you’re not the full package, and there’s plenty more where you came from! 😉
Right guys, I’m not saying you’re inexperienced. I’m not saying that you’re going to be crap in bed. I’m not even saying that you NEED a helping hand when it comes to understanding the mature woman’s body, but let’s be honest, extra knowledge never did anyone any harm, did it? Especially when it means you could be a better lover.
Older women need taking care of a slightly different way to the younger girls you’re probably well used to sleeping with. Or not sleeping with. The heavy-handed, rough and tumble approach isn’t going to bode well for you with a Granny. She is a woman with years and wisdom behind her, so there’s a good chance she’s going to know more than a few tricks herself. That’s certainly the case with me, so I decided to do you all a favour and let you in on the dirty little secrets.
I hope you’re sitting down…
1 – Don’t underestimate the power of foreplay.
So many men cut this out, especially younger guys that haven’t got years of experience behind them. Foreplay is your best friend when it comes to seducing a hot, older Granny, and if you’re not willing to put in the leg work, you’re not gong to get a call back.
Google it, if you don’t know what to do. This is stuff that will help you with ALL ladies, not just the more mature ones.
2 – Don’t leave her nipples out.
Sorry, was that too to-the-point for you? Guys seem to have this weird obsession with breasts, but when they’re ready, naked and waiting in front of them, they don’t really know what to do. Pay attention to her breasts when you’re seducing her, and she’ll be putty in your hands. Didn’t you know there is an actual connection between the arousal part of the brain, and direct stimulation of her nipples…?
3 – Be open about your fantasies…
She’s probably going to be open about hers to you. Isn’t that what you want, anyway? She’s inviting you into her bed because she wants YOU! She wants to try the fruits of your labour, and she wants to try new things full stop. If you aren’t open about what you want to try in bed, you’re wasting a blinding opportunity. Chances are, she’s already thought about doing it too!
4 – Don’t be afraid to go with the moment!
If you really want to ravish her the second you both walk through the front door, do it! Do you know how much your Granny wants that more than anything? After years of scheduled sex with a tired husband who worked too many hours, and had a heart condition, she wants spontaneous, RIGHT NOW sex!
So for the love of God, just give it to her!
5 – Don’t be afraid to explore her body.
If you want to blindfold her, tie her to her headboard, and go crazy, finding all those little spots that make her toes curl, and a little gasp escape her throat, do it! She doesn’t have half as many body hang-up’s as girls your own age. This GILF has learned to live with her flaws, and all those little bits abut her body she didn’t like. It’s wildly refreshing to go crazy with someone that doesn’t feel the need to turn the lights off and cover up with a duvet first, so make the most of it!
Above all else, have fun with your sex. That’s what your Granny wants – someone to have fun with, and to refresh a tired and bland sex life with. Trust me – as a ‘GILF’ myself, that’s all I want!