Right guys, I’m not saying you’re inexperienced. I’m not saying that you’re going to be crap in bed. I’m not even saying that you NEED a helping hand when it comes to understanding the mature woman’s body, but let’s be honest, extra knowledge never did anyone any harm, did it? Especially when it means you could be a better lover.
Older women need taking care of a slightly different way to the younger girls you’re probably well used to sleeping with. Or not sleeping with. The heavy-handed, rough and tumble approach isn’t going to bode well for you with a Granny. She is a woman with years and wisdom behind her, so there’s a good chance she’s going to know more than a few tricks herself. That’s certainly the case with me, so I decided to do you all a favour and let you in on the dirty little secrets.
I hope you’re sitting down…
1 – Don’t underestimate the power of foreplay.
So many men cut this out, especially younger guys that haven’t got years of experience behind them. Foreplay is your best friend when it comes to seducing a hot, older Granny, and if you’re not willing to put in the leg work, you’re not gong to get a call back.
Google it, if you don’t know what to do. This is stuff that will help you with ALL ladies, not just the more mature ones.
2 – Don’t leave her nipples out.
Sorry, was that too to-the-point for you? Guys seem to have this weird obsession with breasts, but when they’re ready, naked and waiting in front of them, they don’t really know what to do. Pay attention to her breasts when you’re seducing her, and she’ll be putty in your hands. Didn’t you know there is an actual connection between the arousal part of the brain, and direct stimulation of her nipples…?
3 – Be open about your fantasies…
She’s probably going to be open about hers to you. Isn’t that what you want, anyway? She’s inviting you into her bed because she wants YOU! She wants to try the fruits of your labour, and she wants to try new things full stop. If you aren’t open about what you want to try in bed, you’re wasting a blinding opportunity. Chances are, she’s already thought about doing it too!
4 – Don’t be afraid to go with the moment!
If you really want to ravish her the second you both walk through the front door, do it! Do you know how much your Granny wants that more than anything? After years of scheduled sex with a tired husband who worked too many hours, and had a heart condition, she wants spontaneous, RIGHT NOW sex!
So for the love of God, just give it to her!
5 – Don’t be afraid to explore her body.
If you want to blindfold her, tie her to her headboard, and go crazy, finding all those little spots that make her toes curl, and a little gasp escape her throat, do it! She doesn’t have half as many body hang-up’s as girls your own age. This GILF has learned to live with her flaws, and all those little bits abut her body she didn’t like. It’s wildly refreshing to go crazy with someone that doesn’t feel the need to turn the lights off and cover up with a duvet first, so make the most of it!
Above all else, have fun with your sex. That’s what your Granny wants – someone to have fun with, and to refresh a tired and bland sex life with. Trust me – as a ‘GILF’ myself, that’s all I want!